What is Tantra?

Tantra: The Sacred Feminine ebook

In 2010, I published the ebook Tantra: The Sacred Feminine to educate people about the rich history of Tantra, the power of sexual energy in our bodies, and how to understand and use this sexual energy.

Tantra: The Sacred Feminine includes:

Part One

• Understanding women
• How to please a woman
• How to bring out the Goddess in her
• The Yoni massage
• Answers to frequently asked Questions from men about women
• How to do tantric sex
• What is a body orgasm
• How do I achieve a full body orgasm
• How can I give her a full body orgasm
• How can I give her multiple orgasms
  

Part Two

• Meditation for a woman - How To Connect With The Divine Goddess Within
• Orgasms for women
• The how to for a woman to realise her Goddess power within
• Men want foreplay too.

Learn more about Tantra by reading excerpts from my book Tantra: The Sacred Feminine.

• What is Tantra
• The History of Tantra
• Sexual Energy
• Multiple Male Orgasms
• Full Body Orgasm

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To learn more about Tantra, order my e- book - TANTRA: THE SACRED FEMININE £7.99

* This book will be out in a few weeks but you can order now without pre payment. Just send me an email via the contact form and I will contact you as soon as the e-book is ready. This E-book is for men to discover how to understand and relate to women better and for women how to realise their Goddess potential within.

 

What is Tantra?

Tantra is 9000 years old and originates from the Himalayan mountains of India. The creator of Tantra was Lord Shiva.

Tantra is about the interplay of Divine female energy empowering the male energy. The female energy is known as Shakti in Sanskrit and the male energy is known as Shiva.

In Tantra the woman is represented as water and the man is represented as fire. In the tantric tradition the woman is the leader and the man surrenders. The woman leads in love, Harmony and peace and sexual excitement. She fuels the man with her sexuality, sensuality, gentleness and nurturing spirit. The woman is the giver and transmits her Goddess energy to her man and energizes him by the ancient art of tantra. She also energises him by having sensual and sexual influence over him by making him surrender to her sacred feminine energy.

For men, Tantra is about surrendering to the Divine feminine, - the Goddess energy within the woman as the life giver. When the man truly surrenders he experiences orgasmic emotions as well as heightened pleasure with mind and body orgasms. During Tantric massage the sex energy is moved up through the central nervous system - the spine - and then out to the rest of the body giving energy to the man. In tantra the feminine energy is the life-power source for men. The sacred Feminine knows that a man ultimately gains heightened pleasure through her total acceptance of his maleness – male potent energy. The Goddess takes the burning passion of the man and re-energizes him. She takes his fire and fuels herself from his male potent energy and her connection to the Goddess, and gives back to him.

For a woman it is about rediscovering her Goddess power within which leaves her feeling empowered, satisfied and fulfilled in her role as a woman connected to the Divine.

When a woman rediscovers her Goddess power within, she realises it is more orgasmic and self fulfilling to be the expression of her soul in giving to the man in love, in the role of seductress, rather than trying to get from her man. A women is empowered when she regains her sexual and sensual identity as the leader in the dance of Tantra.

A woman is like the gentle wind and the man is like the flute. And when she plays the flute right, a beautiful sound is created. Played wrong and the man loses his power - sound.

Excerpt from the e-book The Sacred Feminine

The History of Tantra

Thousands of years ago it was the women who took the lead in the sensual, sexual role and they were revered and recognised as the energy of the Divine Goddess. The Divine Goddess represented the nurturing energy of life, love, sensuality and sacred sexuality. Because of this Women trained in using the Divine feminine were called Tantrikas. A trained Tantrika was able to use the Divine feminine energy to empower and energise men by the power of touch through tantra. She would connect with the Divine feminine, the awakened part of her higher self and through pressure points, yogic breath work, love and tantric touch, she was able physically and emotionally energising men.

It was recognised that man could only be energised by receiving from a woman, trained in tantra who was filled with the Divine feminine for him to experience tantric bliss, mind and body orgasm.
The Tantrika women worked in the temples and the men worshiped the Goddess energy within the woman, as the life giver. The men would honour the Tantrikas by giving them gifts.

Unfortunately religion took the Goddesses role away from the woman by demonizing them and the sex energy. Replacing love with guilt and fear - leaving men forever seeking the Divine feminine. And the women feeling disempowered in their natural role.

Excerpt from the e-book The Sacred Feminine

Sexual Energy

The sex energy is a creative Divine energy and marries the physical and the spiritual and leads to sensual, sexual ecstasy. It is the sexual energy when raised up through the chakras and the central nervous system that leads to Higher consciousness – the higher way of being and thinking.

The sexual energy is the life force that keeps you alive it is also called the Kundalini energy. This energy is situated at the base of the spine. And Tantra is a about raising up the sex energy up the spine for heightened awareness.

In order to be able to raise up the kundalini energy – the sex energy - you must first have a healthy attitude towards the sexual energy. You must surrender to the energy as Divine and you must not judge yourself and your sexuality. As you surrender you will be taken by the energy along the path of tantra. And as you surrender you will become liberated and free no longer hurting yourself and holding yourself in judgement for your own sexuality.

To begin the journey into tantra you must sit quietly and really be honest with yourself. And ask yourself how you see the sex energy.

• Do you judge yourself for having fantasies?
• Do you see sex as dirty ?
• Do you hold any judgement on the sex energy and yourself as a sexual being?
• Do you see sex as bad ?Do you honour your own body ?Do you have sexual guilt ?
• What is your relationship to the sex energy is it good and health of is it bad and destructive ?

If you have a bad relationship with the sex energy the first step we must take is to let go of any preconceived ideas and taboos about how we see sex how the media sees it and any thoughts we may have that has been imposed on us by society and our peers and those who are in authority over us in our lives. This is called liberation of mind and soul.

All you need to do is bring to your mind the unhealthy attitude you may have that is blocking you to be free and to realise your ture well being and potentiallty in the sex – sensual energy. What ever destructive belief system you regarding the sex energy – let go of it. Meditate for a few minutes a day it only needs to be about five minutes a day and observe healthy thoughts, that the sex energy is Divine, it is okay to be a sexual being because that is who you are and who the life force is who is maintaining you.

While you let go of the thoughts that limit your relationship with the sex energy and concentrate observing the healthy thoughts about the sexual energy. Here we can begin to use the sex energy to start your tantric journey into self discovery.

As you sit comfortably just squeeze your pelvic muscles as thought you are stopping yourself from urinating. Clench your thighs and anus at the same time. Hold for three seconds then let go for three seconds. Continue this process throughout your meditation. This helps to awaken the sex energy at the first chakra – the muladhara at the base of the spine. Start to feel the sex energy united with your healthy thoughts to wards it and decide today to have a healthy relationship with the sex energy. We you do this you will start to feel better about yourself. Do this exercise everyday for a month.

The second step is to start with meditation 1 only this time if you are a man surrender to the raw masculine energy feel, it love. If you are a female surrender to the raw Divine feminine energy feel it love.

When we surrender to the feeling the sex energy that represents who we are whether female or male we start to lose our inhibitions. We witness the energy and the beauty it represents.

Excerpt from the e-book The Sacred Feminine

Multiple Male Orgasms

Can a man truly experience multiple orgasms ?

The answer is yes he can.

A lot of men think that multiple orgasm means ejaculating several times in short successions. But this is not male multiple orgasms.

A man when he orgasms actually reaches the feeling of orgasm 3-6 seconds before he ejaculates. To experience multiple orgasms a man has to learn how to hold back ejaculation. And when he learns how to hold back ejaculation, he will be able to experience multiple orgasm. He will be able to orgasm many times before ejaculation and these orgasms are called dry orgasms.

However for the man this takes time and patience with himself and his partner. All men, from an early age, believe that to ejaculate means orgasm. The reason for this is because as orgasm precedes closely to ejaculation, they become ejaculate orientated. It’s a natural thing for a man to want to ejaculate, but there is more to a man's sexuality than ejaculation.

Once a man realises that orgasm and ejaculation are two different things, he will begin to understand that dry orgasms are possible.

The biggest hurdle for the man is the mind but once he has convinced his mind that dry orgasms are possible, the way forward begins.

To achieve dry multiple orgasms a man has to come to that point of no return - the feeling of orgasm. Once he feels the orgasm he must stop any movement on his lingham, squeeze his pelvic muscles in hard to the count of three and take a very deep breath to the count of three. With the second breath he must pull his pelvic muscles in hard, as though he is stopping himself from going to the loo. He then pulls the pelvic muscles in, to the count of two seconds, let go for one second and pull in for two seconds and repeat. Continuing this method he must now pull in his pelvic muscles several times with each breath and he must take at least four deep breaths - each lasting three seconds.

With each breath, he must ride the feeling of the orgasm as he breaths deeply while continuing to squeeze his pelvic muscles several times. The deep breathing helps to heighten the pleasure of the orgasm and helps with the concentration required for ejaculation control.

Excerpt from the e-book The Sacred Feminine

Full Body Orgasm

Click here to watch the Tantric Full Body Orgasm video.

A full body orgasm is not the same as the lingham/Yoni orgasm or, indeed, the multiple dry orgasm that men can have.

A full body orgasm usually starts with tingling sensations in the hands and feet. The hands start to feel light as the sex energy moves up the central nervous system the spine and then out through the rest of the body. The tingling sensation continues to move up the legs and arms accompanied with a pulling sensation rising up through the stomach and the base of the spine. It then continues up to the neck, chest and face area rising to the head. When the orgasm reaches up to the head, many experience what is called a mind orgasm. It is a bliss state of no thought called nirvana. The mind literally feels a bliss like sensation, a feeling of feeling high. Feelings of elation

The body orgasm is caused by moving the sex energy up the central nervous system, (the spine) and out to the rest of the body through yogic breath work and pressure points on the body.

The full body orgasm lasts for up to ten minutes coming in waves of about two minutes at a time. With each wave the full body orgasm gets stronger until it reaches the mind where a bliss state occurs.

A full body orgasm is usually initiated by a trained tantrika. When a man receives a full body orgasm, the sex energy is also a healing energy. It circulates around the body as the full body sensation orgasm, helping to heal every organ in the body. Thus rejuvenating him, lowering his blood pressure, dissipating the stress hormones and boosting the immune system.

For a man, if he is having a full body orgasm for the first time and having had negative issues from the past, he will experience the release of negativity. The negative energy from the past gets stuck in our body and it can be stuck there for many years. Ultimately this negative energy can lead to disease. During the body orgasm, the negative energy is pushed out by the sex energy. The negative energy works its way out through the body by causing the body to at first shiver. Then the negative energy is dissipated through emotional out bursts of crying with relief and laughter. This only happens with a first body orgasm. After the release of the negative energy the man feels elated and unable to get up and walk. He feels a new sense of being high that he has never experienced before. And in the days following, he is better able to cope with life, as he feels more himself and intensely alive.

A full body orgasm leads to well being, bodily healing and sexual healing, deep relaxation and a better understanding of ones own sexuality. When a person is comfortable with their own sexuality, they no longer feel, they become more confident and better able to cope with life.

Excerpt from the e-book The Sacred Feminine

 

Order my ebook Tantra: The Sacred Feminine

Only £7.99

* This book will be out in a few weeks but you can order now without pre payment. Just send me an email via the contact form and I will contact you as soon as the e-book is ready. This E-book is for men to discover how to understand and relate to women better and for women how to realise their Goddess potential within.

Tantra: The Sacred Feminine includes:

Part One

• Understanding women
• How to please a woman
• How to bring out the Goddess in her
• The Yoni massage
• Answers to frequently asked Questions from men about women
• How to do tantric sex
• What is a body orgasm
• How do I achieve a full body orgasm
• How can I give her a full body orgasm
• How can I give her multiple orgasms
  

Part Two

• Meditation for a woman - How To Connect With The Divine Goddess Within
• Orgasms for women
• The how to for a woman to realise her Goddess power within
• Men want foreplay too.

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